​Mistakes women make when their guys cheated on them

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Some ladies thinks that relationship is a do or die thing. Ladies any man who always cheat on you doesn’t deserve your tears take it or leave it. These measures are wrong to take when you find urself in such situations: 

1. Demanding to know about the other woman he cheated you with: You don’t need to know her cos is a relationship. What for??? See if he cheats on you for her, he will cheat on her for some other woman. 

2. Forcing him to choose between you and her: There is no competition here cos if he loves you, he will surely come after you.

3. Scrolling through his phone: These have caused problems in most relationships. You don’t need that, rather ask him yourself ” Can you be able to withstand what you’ll see in the phone.” 

4. Fighting or beating up the other woman. Why not apply maturity in this aspect. Love is worth fighting for BUT not physical battle. Pray about it and if nothing happens, move on babe.

5. Threatening to leave just to scare him: Doing this may not help matters cos if you’ve what it takes to keep him, he wouldn’t leave you and even when he does, he will come back.

6. Insulting him: You don’t need to insult him cos doing that makes him feel that you are afraid of losing him.

7. Posting your matter on social media: Do you think you are helping matters??? Get wisdom ! Many are in your shoes if you don’t know. What will be, will be.

8. Saying ” all men are the same” is a sign of frustration. If truly all men as same then, all woman are same.

9. Trying to commit suicide: Seriously, when you are gone, you are gone ! If tou take your life cos a guy that doesn’t deserve you, then you are such a joker! He will move on with other women. 

10. Putting sad face everywhere you go: Babe, you’re causing more harm to yoursef. Please cheer up and move on he left you to create space for the rightful man to come in.

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